How do I attract the most beautiful women? 22 Amazing tips

How do I attract the most beautiful women?

Medically reviewed and approved by Luzmery Romero M.D. 

How do I attract the most beautiful women? We know it's a bit difficult to win over all the women you desire. Don't be discouraged. That doesn't mean that you don't have a chance to attract the most pretty women. After doing a lot of research and surveying over 200 women, here's what I know: 

Beautiful women are usually attracted to men who are physically active and take care of themselves. Broad shoulders, a toned chest, and chiseled arms will be proof to them that a man cares about his physique and is active. For a woman, a man who doesn't take care of himself will never care about taking care of her.

To increase your chances of scoring these women, you don't need to have a perfectly beefy body. Nor do you need to have a lot of money to attract their attention.

Believe me, if a woman wants you for the money, then run away.

In this article, I will advise you on how to get many beautiful women's attention. 

  1. Tricks to look more handsome to beautiful women
  2. Final tips to make a beautiful woman see you as more handsome
  3. Conclusion

Tricks to look more handsome to beautiful women

How do I attract the most beautiful women?

Feel good about yourself 

The first step to consider is to feel good about yourself just as you are. This is important because, if you are not comfortable with yourself, how can you expect others to be attracted to you? 

When you have self-esteem, you will immediately make the people around you feel your energy. In other words, you will become a magnet for people and, therefore, women.

So, to attract beautiful women, first love yourself. 

Be confident in yourself

This point is essential. How can you gain confidence in yourself? You must believe that you are a fantastic person, and that you are worth a lot.

Know yourself

You must know yourself as well. You must know your strengths, whether it's your sense of humor or conversational skills. Once you are aware of that, take advantage of it.

Value yourself

You may not be the best in the world at many things, but you have to think and feel that you are. That will directly give you a level confidence you can't even imagine.

Do not criticize yourself

Stop criticizing yourself so much. We all have flaws. No one is perfect, so learn to love those negative qualities you think you have and then improve on them. If you don't like them, look for a gradual yet permanent change.

Don't be arrogant

Just as I advise you to have self-confidence and believe you are the best, don't overdo it. All excesses are harmful, so don't become arrogant. Arrogance is not attractive, and women hate a vain man.

Learn to laugh at yourself

As I mentioned before, nobody is perfect; we all have flaws. This is why you should learn to laugh at yourself a little. It's not a bad thing to acknowledge your weaknesses and laugh at them without feeling bad for yourself. 

Be comfortable with your appearance

This point is directly related to the previous ones. No matter what you wear, what hairstyle you have, whether you are tall or short, be accepting of yourself. This will awaken an aura of confidence that will spread to others.

Accept your body

At the beginning of this article, I told you that you don't have to have a muscular body to attract a beautiful woman. You can be a healthy person without having big muscles.

This advice is for those who don't like their physique, or who equate muscles with good looks. You must love and accept your body. If you have any insecurities, you will not attract the many beautiful women you want. 

However, if you want to have a more muscular or more proportionate body, you can get it. If you want a change in your body, commit to it and be aware of your physique. Second, get up and go for the change you wish to. 

Learn to dance

Take some dance classes, this advice has worked for me. Girls love to dance.

You don't need to be an expert, but, by dancing decently well and without shame, you will attract a lot of beautiful women. Dancing improves your physical appearance; it is a fact. 

Go to the gym

You can go to the gym or do exercises at home. This habit is perfect if you want to improve your physique, self-esteem and be more healthy.

As I said before, a beautiful woman looks for a man who takes care of himself. This indicates that he will take care of them also. 

Eat healthy

You can improve your body without going to the gym by starting to eat healthy food. Eating meat, fish, fruits, and vegetables will significantly enhance your physique. Leave a little fat out, although you should eat healthy fats occasionally.

Dress well

This point is essential, dress well. This does not mean that you should buy tons of brand name or costly clothes. You don't need to be rich, but rather presentable and neat. Something that catches a woman's attention is a man who takes care of his appearance.

Improve how you look, and this will show a woman that you make efforts in other aspects of your life. Don't forget to wear clean shirts and shoes that match your outfit. Remember, there is no better first impression than a neat appearance.

Love your life

You have to be happy with who you are today, and what you have. Learn to be pleased with either the job you have or what you are studying in school.

A man with a negative attitude is not attractive at all. You will communicate that you don't know what you want. Rather, you must be content. 

How do you love what you do? If you are an employee, get along well with your colleagues so that they make you enjoy your time on the clock. Don't spend the day being bitter and, above all, consistently do your best work. 

If you fail at something, it doesn't mean the end of the world; you tried your best. This mindset will help improve your self-esteem in your daily life.

If you are studying or starting your career, focus on what outcomes you want for your life, and in the areas you love. A desirable quality in the eyes of beautiful women is that you focus on something you are passionate about. This approach will improve your grades and deepen your knowledge. 

Find yourself a hobby 

Start practicing beneficial hobbies like running, dancing, reading history, etc. Obviously, it will be more attractive to women if you have an exciting hobby, more than just watching TV in your free time.

If you are at a stage in your life that you don't want to do anything new, try to change that. Women are attracted to ambitious men. 

Don't be a complainer

Stop complaining all the time, because someone who is pessimistic is not attractive. Women prefer a pragmatic person who gives off positive energy. 

Try to become cultured

By this, I don't mean become an award winner or anything like that; I mean to be knowledgable. Women are attracted to someone who is informed about the world and life.

If you are a person who can acquire languages, learn another one. 

Reading will also help you to broaden your knowledge base, and learn about other cultures. Anything you read can be an exciting topic to talk about with a woman.

To become more interesting, you can also watch movies; especially classics and well-regarded films. You could also make a good impression by taking your date to an acclaimed film. 

Learn to cook

This is a skill that usually leaves top-tier women very impressed. Learn about the world of cooking; it's exciting. Many women find a man attractive when he knows how to cook, especially a new cuisine.

Be more social

Don't stay in your comfort zone. Develop new and healthy relationships, either with friends or with your family. Many women notice this, and will want to be a part of your life.

A man who doesn't have a good relationship with his family and friends will not make a good impression on beautiful women. How can you get closer to your family?

Visit them more, talk to them regularly, and improve how you treat them, especially your mother. How you treat your mom says a lot about your character, and women notice that. 

Women are attracted to a man who takes care of his relationships with his family. Be careful though, and do not give the impression that you are a mama's boy.

If that pretty girl you like sees that you are close with your family, it will make her consider you as someone caring.

Don't let them take advantage of you

If you have a friend who suddenly becomes a nasty, selfish person, it's time for you to start reevaluating that friendship. Don't let the fact that you've been friends for many years make you stay there. 

If that pretty girl you like sees you being taken advantage of all the time, it won't make a good impression on her. If you have a strong character, it will show women who you are. It will also improve your personal life and relationships. 

Develop your sense of humor 

At the beginning of this article, I talked about how you need to know your strengths. If your skill is humor, then you should develop it even more.

If you learn how to make a woman laugh, it will immediately make you much more attractive. How do you develop your sense of humor?

  • Start being witty. For this, you don't necessarily have to be an extrovert. With intelligent and appropriate comments, women will like you. Everyone appreciates smart assessments and opinions.
  • Please make sure you get it right. If you are thinking of a funny comment in your mind, think very carefully before you speak. Consider how you will say it. If everyone is talking and has heard it previously, the joke won't be funny anymore.  
  • Make the right jokes at the right time. Know how to make a joke with your group of friends, and how to joke with a pretty woman you like.

Learn how to treat a pretty woman

If you want to be much more handsome to pretty women, be sure to make her feel special. It would be best if you learned to do so at the right time, without overdoing it.

If you can make the woman you like feel special, this will make her feel attracted to your honesty and ability to make her feel wanted.

How to treat a pretty woman?

  • Be subtle but pleasant. If you are getting to know her, you should start with a subtle but nice compliment. It can be about something physical, whether it's how she's dressed, her haircut, or an accessory. 
  • Go little by little. Then, as you get to know her, you can go with something a little more direct. For example, praise her smile or her eyes.
  • Listen to her. Please pay attention to her personality, listen to what she is telling you.
  • Show interest in her. Start showing interest in her life in a polite way. This will make her see that you are a genuine and worthwhile person. 

You may be interested in "How to be a social and confident man, 11 Tips that actually work."

Final tips to make a beautiful woman see you as more handsome

How to look handsome to a woman

I already recommended improvements in your life so that you are attractive to pretty women. Now, I'm going to give you a few recommendations to make you likable and interesting to them. 

Just as you want her to be interested in you, it should be mutual, and you should also be interested in her life. How do you make this a mutual thing?

Remember and recall things she has already told you. 

If you've known her for a while, mention details of a past conversation with her. This way, she'll feel comfortable and confident in sharing with you, and find you super attractive. 

Ask respectful questions

Ask questions about her life, but make sure they’re the right questions. This is not an interrogation; it's a conversation. Start by getting to know her tastes with small, non-controversial topics. After you get to know her better, you can go a little further and maybe ask her what she is looking for in a relationship. 

Try joking around respectfully

After you know her much better, you can make more jokes. Don't be afraid as long as she accepts and you are respectful.

Be attentive

You will notice when she starts to feel attracted and wants to go out with you. Then, you must learn to be attentive and let her know how much you care about her. Be a gentleman, offer her your coat if she is cold, or walk her home.

Always notice the small details. 

Pay attention to the nuances, give her small gifts, or tell her you bought her something because she crossed your mind.

Tell her you to enjoy her company

Tell her that you have a good time being with her. You should be honest.  

Don't forget that, no matter if these tips work out or not, the most important thing is to try. Don't think that all men dare to talk to the most beautiful women.

If you couldn't attract the beautiful woman you want, at least know that you improved yourself and your life during the process. 

Remember, it is not necessary to be a millionaire or to have luxurious vehicles. Women are not looking for just money in their lives. They are looking for a man who is unique, and who loves them for who they are.

Don't settle for those women who only ask for material things. Look for a woman who loves you and needs you. 


Always know that no woman is impossible to win over; there are only men who don't know how to approach them. Many guys don't know how to reach out to a woman and touch her deepest feelings.

Learn how to be smart with women; think about what they want, because that's what will give you the edge. 

In short, to be more attractive for those women who don't notice you, you have to first believe in yourself. You have to abandon thoughts that pretty women only go for men with money.

Usually, pretty women are looking for mature, confident men who are rich on the inside. They want men who have a lot to offer, but not only material things. Learn to highlight your strengths so you can find the woman who truly values and loves you.